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When "Players" Stop Acting Like Players

When I say "players" I mean pop culture's traditional definition. I had to go on urban dictionary (don't judge - I practically live under a rock when it comes to this), so we'll go with pop culture's definition.

Anyways, what I observed (mainly from men), were that *some* (at least the ones I have heard from who committed to women) were that the women reminded them of their mothers. Yes, that's very weird but here are some examples. First I'll describe their girlfriends then their mothers.

Person #1: 

His girlfriend: 
extremely critical, calls him annoying, makes him feel unworthy, constantly checks up on him, overtly manipulative, and obsessed with make up, and physical "perfection" (whatever that may mean for her). Both considered "crazy", experiences wild mood swings.

His mother: 
Always on edge, calls him annoying as well, used to tell him he shouldn't have been born, (girlfriend's equivalent of you don't even matter t…

Updates on the blog and second book.

Transferring posts from the older site to this site. I've been getting a lot of attention from the right people who could help my books receive more attention. Thus, fixing up the site currently, so you can review the books section of the site.

For the psychoanalysis book, I've finished writing up all the sections. All I have to do is rearrange the sections and put them where they belong. My friend suggested I write what I've learned in the past two years and include it in the beginning. There is a term for it, which I forget. I hope to finish it by the end of August (before my birthday).

For the first book I decided to revise and edit it, so now there will be the "Second edition" so whatever copies you've purchased - are outdated. That will also be finished around the same time. Keep it for memories if you please. 
I'll be by my computer all night, so I'll post many more things.

How to get the tough person to obsess over you.

Guys, this one page is a part of my book. I feel kind of insecure, as I do not know if this seems to repetitive, or just too vague. Please give me your opinions! You guys are my audience, so it would be very much appreciated. Should I add more? Change up the wording? does it flow?


twitter: @DodedahJones

or, in the comments.

now... let's begin. :)


The tough one is the person who comes off as cold, and tough. No reactions, or emotions.

What is missing in their lives:
Vulnerability, emotion. Emotional liberation.

Their motivations: to protect themselves, by being "tough" and indifferent. If you don't care, you can't get hurt. This is the motivation.
Deepest darkest desires/ Potential suppressed parts of themselves:
-To show emotion.
-To be a mess, to let down their walls.
-Their vulnerable side. Parts of them want someone to penetrate their high walls.

Idealized self:
They're mentally and emotionally liberated.

How to get them to fa…

Mommy voids some men have ...

My ex narcissist is getting married a month after giving me silent treatment. How did this happen? by Taesen Romine

How to spread petty rumors about your ex (according to my EX) (AND GET CAUGHT part 1)

You don't know what your ex Is capable of...  Today may be a good day to discover just what they're capable of..  
I'm not sure if I should be angry or fascinated by BA starting and spreading petty rumors about me. This is how it all started. Got a random facebook message around 11 pm from one of his employees.

I thought this was random... Why would he do that anyways - I thought to myself.  He's never done anything like this before. He's always stood up for me behind my back.  Least that's what I heard.  I was upset, mostly in denial,  didn't want to believe he would actually "ruin my life" - so I asked J,  Harley's wife. (still don't know her name 😁). 
She didn't know,  so she handed it over to her husband. He confirms it via these msgs.  I tried to msg BA himself, but he's read it and has yet to reply - if at all.  
I did end up calling this employee of his. He told me that after their official business meeting was over,  he t…


Brace yourselves, this is going to be a long post. I must warn you, I am still feeling the fresh raw adrenaline and anger from talking to this idiot. 
First, I should explain what the last post was about, and this ominous picture we both spoke of. So there was this picture I had on my cellphone, was a picture of me wearing that same dress, at the same restaurant and location (TD bank tower - Canoe restaurant; for those of you wondering. Yes they weirdly enough have weddings, but on that floor). So it was of me sitting with him, his arm around me, kissing my cheek and (now, regretfully) showing off my engagement ring. 
It is now deleted,  but I would've deleted it earlier if I truly remembered it was there. 
Second, he claims he'll ruin my life. honestly, I'm not worried. He's a punk. But find this interesting anyways, because how cool would it be to write about someone who blatantly tells me they're going to ruin my life, and write about it while it's all happ…

Look at this crap

I'll post the explanation later